Trip BOGOR gone wrong ~

hello to all reader, this time story aku pasal trip sendu ke BOGOR ind. on last June 2019.

lets start on the sway day one.

Aku tak la label this trip as sebuah trip yang tak guna, well semua trip mengajarkan kita sesuatu. And suppose kita kena cepat tangkap, apa sebenarnye moral atas segala benda yang ko kira sway tu. kalau tak, end up ko akan create a worse memory or you maybe gonna make someone else hurt without u realize.

sunrise at basecamp gunung putri.

cliche' nye lah..tapi tu kire mcm conclusion kot..(see..conclusion kat awal2 cerita. tak ke rare tu hahaha..)

apa yang aku boleh simply conclude adalah trip ni tak jadi. sebab tak achived checklist yang ko dah plan berbulan lamanya. kinda dissapointing though.

mampu ambik gmbr dgn background gn. Gede je.

day 1: First day lagi aku dgn member aku yg sorg ni dah tertinggal bus ke KLIA. sbb lambat 1 minit and I can say that driver is hellish punctual over time. kat sini salah kitorg sbb terhegeh-hegeh sangat besiap..lol

then sampai airport until reach Jakarta semuanya "OK". sampaila mlm kitorg tak henti2 janjalan area  'Tangerang.' area rumah member..duduk pun rumah member, makan tido sume FOC. Thanks sgt kat family member yang sangat terbuka menerima visitor cam kami ni..

masa ni dah la kepala mcm di awang-awangan. sambil tunggu member kat atas update status.

day 2: masa ni dah start tak best, sbb main activity aku nak ke bogor untuk hiking kat Gunung Gede pangrango. dalam plan kitorg akan gerak ke bogor lepas solat jumaat (mase tu hari jumaat) tapi disebabkan mak member (org kuat utk trip ni) tiberr tak bagi pegi, so ambik mase nak g pujuk mak die. and masa ni member aku yang sorg ni pulak jenis yang tk faham situation. She takes everything for granted and I was the one who being attacked by her..she blame me for what had happen that time sbb kitorg tak gi memane pon on day 2. duduk rumah je..well aku lah ketua for team Malaysia (BERTIGA) actually. member kat Jakarta are my friends. so dia blame aku sebab aku tak communicate well dengan diorg about our plan. okay, aku kene clearkan kat sini kan in case die baca la story aku ni.

first, aku dah cakap dengan diorg about our whishlists. secondly, benda diluar kawalan aku sebab aku hanya menumpang segala facility, ilmu pengetahuan and everything related to Indonesian cultures yang aku tak tau. so aku hanya mampu bagitau and kalau diorg tak free aku tak mungkin paksa orang..sebab aku hanya seorg yang mengharapkan ihsan baik diorg untuk realizing all my whishes there. third, atas dasar seorang manusia yang beradab, aku hormat keputusan diorang, aku faham kepenatan diorang, and aku redha dengan takdir yang tuhan dah tentukan untuk aku. eventhough aku sedih jugak banyak bazir masa (well you do hoping your trip to be full with activities) tapi aku lagi sedih bila member tak faham adab berziarah & menumpang di negara orang...

wrap up before balik jakarta

day 3: masa ni the reality strock me to death,, (tadelah...gurau jer) I was like dusshummmmmmm...bila dapat news yang kitorg tak dibenarkan hiking gunung Gede. sbb member aku dia try naik gunung tu riki pakai org dalam. tapi nasib la kan, masa tu ade pak polisi lagi jaga jalur vis gunung putri di pos satu. (dan dan jer) jadi after waiting pak polisinya turun, tapi ngga mau turun2 dari gunung..so we had to cancel the hiking plan la. sebab nak hiking tu mabil masa 7 jam utk smpi basecamp. counting on stamina jugak. so kalau dah lewat sangat, takut nanti tak sampai tujuan pulak. (hikers je yg faham aspect2 apa yang kitorg kira kalau nak g hiking..malas cakap banyak). masa ni pulak aku kena food poison sbb makan Recheese level 5. padan muke. HAHAHAH.. so mase tu nyawa aku ntah terbang keluar tapi aku sedar..plus rasa kecewa so aku sgt down. tapi aku try to push myself utk tak tunjuk sgt perasaan aku tu kat member2 indo aku. sbb aku tau semua org sacrifies thier time for this trip. not just you so try not to be selfish la..and after aku makan ubat aku okay. end up kitorg pegi camping kat Mandalawangi base camp.

rasanya ada yang tak masuk dalam gambar..

day 4: mase ni kitorg sesiap pack untuk balik, konon nak singgah jambatan gantung situ gunung..end up jammed giler sbb mase tu hari ahad. and macet kat indo seriously no joke. mase ni member aku dah koyak rabak dah hati die. sbb tak ada satu pun dalam whishlist die yang menjadi. kalau org indo cakap "baper" aaa gitew..aku mase ni tak tau dah camne nak handle situation. kita tak nak member indo terasa hati bile ade yg memarah ke ape..end up kami makan hati diam-diam la. dgn nak jaga hati member yang koyak ni pulak..I lost. mase tu aku dah malas nak kesah kan feeling org lain. aku  buat ape yang betul and aku tak nak action aku tu akan maembuatkan aku menyesal di kemudian hari. tapi tula...

day 5: okay, mase ni pun member sorg ni lagi buat hal..die duk paksa2 orang hantar die g indomart, nak g consina la ape. IDK wht to say, tapi adab kita ni masa nk mintak tolong org tu kena la sedar diri. dengan menumpang, pinjam barang orang semua, pastu ko force orang suruh hantar ko g sana sini. minyak pun tak tong..apakan lagi energy orang tu yang exhasuted melayan tetamu 5 hari straight. (aku boleh imagine kalau aku nk kne layan tetamu 24 jam for 5 days) its tiring..I'm trying to be considerable and memang dia tak sabar nak balik. tapi aku fikir, bila ada tuan rumah and lagi2 orang tua..kita seboleh2 nya try to be polite and thanking them to the very end of your trip. kalau kita jumpa org baru and kita appreciete diorang, we will never try to part a.s.a.p. of kos dah nak balik, baru kita salam, thanking them and hug them to show your appreciation (you know what I mean)

so overall aku sgt sedih dgn member aku sorg ni and aku try utk act like nothing had happened, but when we get back to malaysia she told everyone that its all my fault. I want to clear this situation to every reader who are not in my shoe. dalam situasi kali ni, I was like the center. aku bawak 2 org member yang tak kenal each other from malaysia. and my friends in Indonesia. its like 3 different sources gathered base on me. aku kene try jadikan diorg know each other. If they cannot blend in than it is a problem to me. I have to please everyone and try to console them. aku jadi mcm busy la nak layan sume org ni. tapi Alhamdulillah bila si A boleh bergaul baik dengan semua orang. so aku macam dah lepas beban aku nk jaga si A. takde la die pishang kalau aku pegi borak dgn team C. The proble is bila B mula rasa terabai and I thought she already adapt dengan semua orang and I think she is old enough to handle this situation. tapi rupanya she wants me being with her all the time maybe. that's why she was mad at me. But sorry to say, I cannot be selfish. kalau aku 24jam layan ko, habis camne pulak dgn yang lain. how about my desire to meet and get a happy moment dengan team C sedangkan aku dtg sana sekali-sekala. macam ko jumpa kawan ko yang duduk jauh la. ko nak spent quality time dengan member yang lain jugak. to me B is being inconsiderate thats all. she is immature. everything needs to be carefully explain why we do things like this and like that so that she won't feel offended..this is bloody annoying coz, if you are grown up man, you should know that..

    "Tak semua bende ko plan akan menjadi & tak semua yang ko nak, ko dapat!" 

in another word

"manusia hanya mampu merancang Tuhan yang menentukan"

see...aku rasa semua orang pernah dgr and hafal sentence ni. tapi tu la, tak semua orang beriman dengan agama. cakap pandai..nak hadam tak reti. 
i'm sorry as i was fail to make it a very happy successful last trip for you my dear friend. But you've got to know that being a bagpacker is like this. its the truth and I was hoping she can forgive me. May God always be with the right one. and if its you then I am gulity & I AM SORRY.

Its not worth it to sacrifies your friendship over things like this. I really hope she feel the same too. BTW I love my friend..

pengajaran nya harap diambil sebagai tauladan.. (betulke ayat aku?)

sekian..